La kta kte, uncle aunti, hulaki kaka...............maa chai nepal tira laage........mero flight aba 30 min ma cha......ahile airport bata type gardai.....enjoy guys......ali ali nervos pani bha chu hai.........


ani foe bro bhet ne haina taa nepal ma aako bela ........i will be there for 2 months and i am going to do some research in nepali food specially locked inside palace .....newari and thakali............if possible i will try be guest chef for the tv progamme in nepal channel. I am send the letter and cv......if works u will see me in tv

cheers

Be Cautious Dude, Mawabadi might recruit you in their team..

Hummmmmmmmm Dai-jo.......yummmie

Yar....mm broda why dont u do this!!!........find one grl.......behay garney kuro gara.....aani.....ask some dai-jo from them.......* i know u dont want dai-jo* but....yeso malai deye hu-dai na? if u really dont want it then....i can take it.....i will sell it in E-bay or i will organize a Tag-Sell

Think about it.............

Pease ;ut

Thik kuro ho.. reality dekhnu and sabai kura bujnu, but...sidai if u give even one sofa, i will send ur daughter back bhannu chai atti bhayo bhanna matra khojeko.

Aba manche jo ho tso ta ho, tara pani aru manche pani jo ho tyai nai taho ni. "Ma nai hu" bhanne bhawana bata MATRAI chalyo bhane alik ramailo nahola ki bhanna matra khojeko.

Aba kumari than tira ni nagako dherai bhayo deep bro. Jaha gayeni Bhadrakali nai Bhadrakali dekhchu. Daar nai lagne:)

IndisGUise:)

Hmm every one is running after marriage.....gotta think. ;))

Seems like all these oldies are getting horny

Excuse me ?...what has marriage to do with geting h**** ? I dont think people marry just for physical relationship.

"Perhaps parents do love their children unconditionally, but every other relationship between or among parties with mind of their own is not unconditional. Except for unconditional love, all relationships are contracts. Every offer has to be met with reasonable consideration. Since offer and consideration are both abstract here, the contract becomes quite volatile when defination of offer and consideration change between the involved parties. "

deep bro, k bhaneko ho maile ni bujhena :P you have answered without letting us know the question. Which relation coquers the boundry of unconditional love? is their anything as unconditional love?

" The first statement above considerably flirts with idealism. It may not be very difficult to attain that happiness momentarily, perhaps, but is extremely difficult to remain there or maintain such happiness. Relationships are highly emotional or abstract. Even a revered jogi in hardwar can't define his happiness just in terms of how happy his prabhu is with him. He also wants to be a part of that happiness. He wants something in return. "

same problem here, you havent defined happiness. Also, you have a big problem with the satement, "Jogi in haridwar cant define his happiness ...." Happiness is Realization. He doenst want happiness, he realizes happiness. So he cannot define his happiness, but he can feel the happiness in him. havnt you heard the quote, "happiness are the memories you remember" and that's what exactly happiness is.

p.s Indisguise bro's, reply was emotional, but when i saw deep bro talking abt idealism, I also wanted to say something :)

You don?t love the person you marry then whats the purpose of getting married. Marriage is the commitment of two hearts... love not necessarily we need pompous ceremony to prove it. If marriage is not about love of two people then in that sense divorce comes up, again this is western way of love and marriage: you attracted to someone thinking you love the person, get married and got tired of the person, looking for someone again and no feeling for that person anymore. So where is the human connection and feeling here, I don?t think this one is so called Love. This is just the
infatuation only. if you marry for a person?s property and fame then it is business relationship only no love involved there.

In general, they are more greedy and materialistic and love comes secondary or less. Also they seem more devoted to their partners just outside commercial only but not deeply inside, there is no full commitment for love there. Everything seems artificial; nice words, flowers etc. but deeply lacking the trust inside. I saw my neighbours kissing passionately outside their porch other day and two days later I heard they broke up; just unbelievable.... nothing is for sure. How we gonna live life like that if there is so much unpredictability even after marriage and having kids. Trust and secured environment is the basic foundation for happy love and marriage life regardless how much we have in the bank.

Marraige is a commitment to a relationship. The more you put into that realationship, the more you will get out. The stuff that powers marraige is blood, sweat, and tears---in short, unceasing effort. You might think of it as exercise: it doesn't really matter whether you like it or not at the time, you're still bound to benefit from it.

Life might be easier, and the relationship simpler without the marraige contract, but it's really like staying in the kiddie-pool because you're scared of the deep end. You might never drown, but you'll never know what's its like to swim either.

You don't love the person you marry then whats the purpose of getting married. Marriage is the commitment of two hearts... love not necessarily we need pompous ceremony to prove it. If marriage is not about love of two people then in that sense divorce comes up, again this is western way of love and marriage: you attracted to someone thinking you love the person, get married and got tired of the person, looking for someone again and no feeling for that person anymore. So where is the human connection and feeling here, I don't think this one is so called Love. This is just the
infatuation only. if you marry for a person's property and fame then it is business relationship only no love involved there.

In general, they are more greedy and materialistic and love comes secondary or less. Also they seem more devoted to their partners just outside commercial only but not deeply inside, there is no full commitment for love there. Everything seems artificial; nice words, flowers etc. but deeply lacking the trust inside. I saw my neighbours kissing passionately outside their porch other day and two days later I heard they broke up; just unbelievable.... nothing is for sure. How we gonna live life like that if there is so much unpredictability even after marriage and having kids. Trust and secured environment is the basic foundation for happy love and marriage life regardless how much we have in the bank.

Marraige is a commitment to a relationship. The more you put into that realationship, the more you will get out. The stuff that powers marraige is blood, sweat, and tears---in short, unceasing effort. You might think of it as exercise: it doesn't really matter whether you like it or not at the time, you're still bound to benefit from it.

Life might be easier, and the relationship simpler without the marraige contract, but it's really like staying in the kiddie-pool because you're scared of the deep end. You might never drown, but you'll never know what's its like to swim either.

"deep bro, k bhaneko ho maile ni bujhena :P you have answered without letting us know the question. "

Confused bro le bujhena rey? confuse bhayeko?

"you have answered without letting us know the question. "

aba confuse hamlai pani gardini? katako prasna katako jabaf prabho---
"Perhaps parents do love their children unconditionally, but every other relationship between or among parties with mind of their own is not unconditional. "
uparokta lekhai ta mero dristikon ho, aba jawaf ghosit gardera prasana khojne jimmako jhola malai bhiraidini bhanya yattikai?

"is their anything as unconditional love?"
I think there is. You will realize when you encounter one. The first person that bless my mind when I talk about unconditional love is my mother. This may not be true for everybody, that's why I used the word "perhaps".

"same problem here, you havent defined happiness. "
I don't think so. Happiness is relative but no matter how you define the concept, it (the concept) pretty much offers certain state of elated mind. Now, what makes your mind to elate is a different corner.

"Happiness is Realization". What else am I saying?

Also, you have a big problem with the satement, "Jogi in haridwar cant define his happiness ...." Happiness is Realization."

I disagree again with your "big problem" declaration. "He doenst want happiness, he realizes happiness." Now I realize the statement is from confused bro:) The statement of yours is contradictory. How can he realizes happiness if he does not want to have that happiness in him? Also, how can he not want the happiness he realizes? Happiness is an abstract concept like realization bro. You can neither describe realization nor happiness.

"happiness are the memories you remember" and that's what exactly happiness is. "
This is quite a parochial defination of happiness, bro. I see the world of happiness much bigger and wider than that. Happiness is not just confined to memories, it goes beyond that.

Anyway confused bro, sukra bar saanjh parna layo---aba dui twak jaad ra chha wata jati churos tane si sanibar bihan hunchha---ani feri naulo din purano jindai---

je hos---lagne haina ta happiness realize garna tira? mari lanu ke chha ra? ki chha?

"Excuse me ?...what has marriage to do with geting h**** ? I dont think people marry just for physical relationship." - matrix girl

Matrixgirl........u must be in a dream world or something!!!, B-T-W, how old r u?

ohh....oh...let me guess 13 or 31??? u cant be between those age.....either younger or older!!! hoina ta?

*no offence* @ the ppl who think they are offended!!! ;)

Khetittititititiitititi

sadi barbadi bhanchhan kyare kasai kasai le.thikai pani hola kati patak.jaba real personality khulchha bihe pachhi you may realize that your better half may be quite to the contrary of what she or he had portrayed before the sadi. tyasaile arranged marriage garne haru kahile kahi faschhan. arranged nai garnu thyo ta kina afule bhaneko jasto napako hola bhanne kura ho.daijo saijo ta ke tension bho ra.chaidaina bhanera afno opinion rakhdine.tyo garnu nai thulo kuro honi.haina ta. je hos bihe garnu bhaneko chai ali thulai decision ho ni.aba sarai horny bhaera ali gatilo thiti/thita dekheki puchhar ghumaudai pachhadi hidna pani milena ni bihe garepachhi.commitment ra trust nai ta ho relationship hold garne.bihe nai na garne kheladi bhaera basne ni.best tyahi ho.tara kahile kahi ta euta family ko pani rahar jagdo hola sabailai. tyasaile physical relation matra ho bhanne sochne haru le bichar gare hunchha bihe garna..ek din dui din tin din garda gardai ek din ta wakka lagchha hola ni..haina ra??

Matrixgirl........u must be in a dream world or something!!!,

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Ofcourse i am. LOL.

wished I were leavin for Nepal. Heck whens that day gonna come. still waitin

guys, i am back after a long long gap( 2 months i guess). I was very busy with my wedding stuff going around in home. Thanks to all for your valuable contribution on this matter. GGGGGGGGGGGGGGOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDD news,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,i am not married yet but next year mangshir. I found this lovely, cute, intellegent and amazing gal. I reject gal shown by my dad coz she make me think with the pic she send me. She send me a pic wearing jeans folded with white top on and finally wearing slipper.........well, i was told she looks like aish........aish my ass.........i threw the pic in bin and said no way. I was then told about this thakuri gal who originally comes from nuwakot. She is studying major english as a bachelors of art student and working as teacher for last 4 yrs.
My first interview was with her sister and bhinaju..........which went well then i move to second interview was with her brother and entire family including her thulo bau ko chora chori. My third interview was with her sano mummy, thulo mummy , thulo buba and etc etc. My fourth interview was all infront of entire family in naglo family room. She came wearing nice sky blue kurta ( kajal style) looking dashing beauti but shy. We were not allowed to talk alone........so i had couple of question but she didnot answer. I answer all the question. I was told she dont know how to cook...........so i said dont worry i will cook and i will teach you to cook. ........second thing i said was........i will never raise a hand against any women coz i have seen my dad doing to my mum when i was 13. I have promised lord pashupatinath not to do that. She comes from strong background with conventional thinking. I was given no of her............she has 6 sister, 3 brother bhayo ta baa baa. Her second sister called me who is married to rana as well .........and arranged a phone call. ............we talk for 30 min and she was impressed..............mm lai guff dina kasle sakne haina........hahahahaha........since then we have been dating .........and now we are in love........twist in story.......her elder brother doesnot want us to get married coz he has also a daughter who is as same age as her.......but her entire family wants me to marry her.......we have been seeing each other from the support of her sisters, brothers except her elder brother. I had to prospond wedding coz her 3 sister is in london and she has to come.........but we are getting court marriage very soon..............

You all will be proud of my choice

her good characters are
1. doesnot allow me to spend to much money
2. insist on travelling in micro tampu than taxi
3. insist on meeting some nice place than cafe or hotel
4. she is forgiving
5. she is breaking her barriers for me ( sex not included so far)
6. we talk about our future relation openly ( including sexual healthy life but still not done)
7. she is amazing and loves kids
8. She never had any relation in past ( bounded in thakuri style tradition)
9. She is first to get married out side thakuri in her family
10. She pampers me by feeding me............aru suspense

she is the one.........

Congratulations. Have happy married life soon.

Might be because of born in conservative family, one thing I could not really accept, the openness of yours about your future partner. Anyway it is your life and plaese forgive if you don't think my ideas are reasonable.

Good luck and back to sajha again.

I was her she was me...we were young we were wrong.....

o-hooo, moneyminded! tapai laai ekdam THULO badhai chha! welcome back pani chha yaar! i'm glad to hear you are happy and excited about your fiancee and your wedding. are you back in hk now? how were things in nepal? ani bihe garepachhi, kahaa basne ta? will you return to nepal or will she move to hk? just curious, hai. la, congratulations....

Yeah, congratulations MM bro on your engagement and upcoming wedding. She doesn't know how to cook? Well, does she know what she is getting into? Well, I'm sure she'll learn it quick. Dude, teach her to cook lean cuisine only and help her maintain her shape.

Moneyminded! You did it man! Congratulations! With the sound of it, she is probably your the "SOUL MATE" rest time will tell but I am happy for you.
Revival
Waiting for Money Minded's Janti Nimto