Let us hear it. How would you respond if you were to receive this e-mail from a Nepali nari with whom your "kurakani" had in the past?

I think you might have heard my name before. But you might not remember my name. Is this the way to deal with any girl? What these guys think of themselves? Once they get chances to go to abroad they just forget Nepali society. They think that they have touched the sky, moon star etc etc. Among those guys you are the one. What you think of nurses? You just think that they get job easily there so you are searching Nepali nurses though you have girlfriend there. If you have girlfriend there why couldn't you tell that to your brothers before entering to any girls home.
If you have girlfriend there then is it manly to send photos with brother and took photos from here. Is this the way to go to anyone's home (unknown people)? I feel pity and I am very sorry to those Nepali girls who become happy to marry with those guys (who just loss there bachelorism).
I hope you will just remind this to your family members? And will prevent repeating such great mistakes again and again.
These all responses are based on the information provided by your family members.
Keep these things in your mind. One day the third person might be born(child). If this things happen to your child then what will you do? If you have born to be a man and wants to be a man forever then you sit and think and send me the reply for this.

Purush

Purush

Ghakrakki parera bhanichan ni ta unile.

You know I liked her expression. Nepali keta haru ani uniharu ko family biha garne bela tira nikkai mattinchan. Arka ko chori ta manche nai haina jasto garchan, biha garne nabhai kana goru kinna gaye jasto.

It's really good Nepalese girls are getting strong enough.

This should be a lesson to boys who look at others daughters and give all sorts of comments.

Purush in my openion say sorry to her.

it was funny...all i can say is ...lol..

Not sure if I understood the whole story, but if one has a girlfriend in the U.S., why would he go to Nepal and check out another girl (for marriage), irrespective of whether he plans to be with his girlfriend in the U.S. in the long run? Isn't that just NOT right?

I think your response should start with a big Sorry and 'it will never happen again.'

Wow one in Nepal, other in US?
Nepal ki amalai bhat pakaune
ani america ma bhayeki aphule ghumaune bichar gareko ho ki k ho????
Janha gayo tyehi GF orwife.

JUST KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks guys for your comments!

The thing is whoever received this e-mail was looking for a girl in Nepal. His family was looking for a lady and they forwarded her profile with her photographs. But the guy thought it was not good idea to proceed with the proposal.
And the thing is, he didn't and and doesn't have a girl friend in US. It looks like someone told her that the guy had a girl-friend, may be to provide her some comforts, and thus rejected the lady.

How would you guy think if you are fairly looking for a lady and happen to reject someone and get such an e-mail?? DO you guys still want to hold the previous comments?

Thanks for all your attention.

Purush

ay purush, u know what situation is same like mine..tara i don't have gf here nor i got any email from that grl...hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaa.tara mero pani ghar ma nurses saga kura chalira cha........

i didn't have a girlfriend and my family looked for girls for me (many actually) and i continuosly rejected all. then i had girl friends (several times), then break ups.. then girl friend etc. then last summer they looked for one more girl, i even talked her on the phone and all that. but still i didn't want to get married. now i don't have girlfriend, and my family started talking with other families. i have told my family strictly that i am not ready to get married now, so cut that crap. perhaps because i just don't want to, at the moment. i have too many things to take care of before i am ready to move on with a married life, because once i get married, i want to retire from work, and that is nor far and i am still young. i think the best way is to talk with your family if you are not ready to get married. if they insist then talk to the girl open heartedly and tell her what you really feel. Just don't lie. there are two ways - the hard way and the easy way. harder ways are more fun.. so enjoy the hard way...

sujanks broda....,i wish your parents were mine.....afue viha garchue vhanda pani..sanaie chas...ahilay viha garnay umer vhakoe chaina vhanchan.......broda chahi vih agar vhanda pani nagarnay.....satnay kay ho? bau ama 1 mahina ko lagi....?huh?

Hey Sujanks,

In my case, I was looking for too. I was not happy with her profile (education, profession and photographs, etc., taking altogether). I had every right to reject her and she did have that right too. I did have a very fair intention to get married, but you need a right person, right?
But, the middleman, it was of course not my family, might have apparantly told her that I had a girl friend and was still looking for a nurse to get married and make a lot of money when she gets here, as Nepalese think that nurses make money in the US. They don't know how hard it is to get certified and get job.
oh boy, I was so stunned to read those lines.I never intend to hurt anyone, but simply you cannot accept anyone too. But I really appreciate her taking time and writing an e-mail. Actually nurses are different than others.
She challenged my manship and made me reply her in the middle of my crazy semester.

Hahaha
Purush!
This is a funny posting... :)
did you reply to this email??
looks like you were looking for a nurse?
Try Bir-hospital.. I am sure you will have a pick ;) hehehehehe JK

try
http://www.nepalmatrimonial.com/

well... I dont know what you said to her but She really seem to be hurt!..
send her some flowers ;) hehehe 1-800-FLOWERS ...

Actually I had to reply that e-mail. I replied it was not because she challenged my manship but because she was hurt and was thinking I was a bad guy, and had a bad intention. I had a full of respect for any lady especially to those with whom there had been a "kurakani." Then I had to clarify my intentions.

I replied that she was given a wrong information about me by someone. I offered my apolozies for whatever she had to go with, wished her a better candidate, and discussedd about the beauty of Nepali society in which ladies are provided comforts by interpreting guy's intention as wrong/evil.
However, at last I realized that I was looking for someone who had dashing vigor like that irrespective of what she looked like.

Don't tell me you are falling for her! :)

I liked the way she retaliated by taking a time and writing an e-mail to someone who discarded her. Would you do that? I liked that part and I was wondering why she lacked in other. I wished she had other things that I was looking for too.

Purush, if you look for too much, the chances are you would find none.

I have been discarded many many times;), but the good part about me is, they have always come back to carry me home. :)

Sometimes we look for too many things in a wo/man, and often tend to forget that a wo/man can only have so many virtues. The point is, what does not a man or a women do not want? We want everything.

As cheesy as it might sound, bass pyar ho na chaiye ;). Which in your case, is not there as of now. But remember, love is an weird emotion. Takes you by surprise and makes you do things you would otherwise would not imagine in your wildest imagination.

Okay, okay, enough of this bull shit. Just say sorry, take 5 shot, and sleep. Tomorrow is another day ;)

IndisGuise:)

InDisguise bro,

Who discarded you?? I see all the Sajha ladies such as LadyinRed, Ruina, and others running after you. I don't think anyone will discard a person like you. If one does, I would say "she is unlucky and poor" coz she didn't understand you.
Sathi ko rasi chhahi Mithun haina ra??

Damn bro, you do not know what you did just now:(

Lady will literally stop talking to me and Ruina rani will give me some kung fu.

One is black belt another is a step ahead. By the way, its the other way round bro. I am after others. But I wish... :(

Tii halla haru hunnn.... timi le dekhekaaa... ahem! although mero mutu ko dhadkan narokini hoina yaha kasai kasai ko posting le:p Re kya ;)

;)

" If one does, I would say "she is unlucky and poor" coz she didn't understand you."

LOL. Jaad lako bela, dil khus bhayo la. hahahaha.

Ajeee sunti hooooooooooooo!!! Re kya ;)

LMAO.

IndisGuise:)

हे पुरुष, त्यो तिमीले पठाएको रिप्लाई पनि हामीलाई पढ्न दिने कि ? अनि राम्रो सँग आनालाइज गर्न सकिन्छ, कि कसो सोम हरु ?

खुट्टा भए जुत्ता जत्ती पनि पाइन्छ है ।

I didn't mean to deter them to run after you. I said what I saw in Sajha. I'm sorry bro if it reaches any inconvenience to you. Accept my apolozies!
And ladies, don't read what I've written up there. Indi bro is a nice guy to be around, go for it.