I have a very jealous aunt. She cannot see me doing good or me getting success. This has been since I was a kid. She has a son and daughter. We are of same age. My cousins were very nice with me so was I. but my aunt’s behavior has put our relations into jeopardy. I love my cousins but they have a misunderstanding that I don’t love them which isn’t true.
We haven’t argued or had any fight but the hatred is growing like a fire with my cousins. Through this Sajha.com I want to convey a message to my cousins, If they know who am I talking about I am sorry if I’ve ever hurt u, I promise I never meant to hurt because I’ve always loved you like my bro and sis.
It is your mom who always hurt my feeling and shared my secrets with strangers and other.

Sajha Readers I really do need some feed back and a suggestion.

KILL the old Hag

I know where all that hatred is coming from.

Juxta,
Just stay away from them.

hire uday as a hitman and KILL her

dont forget to get a life insurance policy on her first and you as the beneficiary, so u can make $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

be a milionaire.


just kidding ofcourse ;)

-lato

comn guys I need some serious suggestion.

I tried a lot to stay away from her but her ain't leave me alone.

Juxtapositions, Don't get distracted! Iignore those jealous ones!! Remember time is precious!!! Focus on what you are doing and on your life. You will get what you are looking for!

1) First of all,change your attitude towards your aunt...Even if she is jealous...treat her well...
2) You can not change other's feeling at once but you can try to influence other's by your positive attitude...Be positive...
3) You look so desperate to make your cousins feel positive about you...so,it is not the way...by publicly anouncing about aunt's jealous,you are trying to degrade your relationship with them...be brave and call them and share your feelings...

This is not the right place to work on your relationship...

Juxtapositions.

Jealousy is a normal human trait. Some are more jealous than others. It is a negative feeling. The only way to get rid of negative feeling is by positive feeling. Give her love and understanding and support and show her she's important to you. Even if she say's cutting remarks, remember that she is the one who has problem of negativity. If you go along and try to make more cutting remarks towards her then you too suffer from negativity. Understand that it is her problem and you will try to help her out of it by showing positive feelings.

When you show positive feelings there is no reason for your cousins to think otherwise...

Give a call to Munna Bhai MBBS ...he would definately come out with solutions....

बार्ता नै सबै समस्या को समाधान को कडी हो ।तेती ठुलो देश को समस्या त बार्ता ले सुल्झायो तिम्रो त घर को समस्या न हो ।
So juxtaposition bro...go n talk to her...ask her whats her problem with u....take her notes seriously...think wisely and proceed accordingly..
Its for sure that solution for a problem comes a lot quicker when there is a head to head talk..gud luck for ur family reunion.

Juxtapositions,
There is a saying that you can choose your friends but not your relatives and neighbors.
you have to live with it ; you can not control how other people feel about you but you can control how you want to deal with people. If this is a person that is important in your life, then try to be nice but don't care what he/she feels about you. If it is someone you can avoid, then don't even care about this whole thing. No matter how hard you try it's not gonna work; it's very difficult to change people's minds. And about your cousins, give them time to grow up and one day they will realize their mom was wrong. If they don't then why do you even care?
Life is too precious to even care about these things; make good friends as they will be with you no matter what !!!

Thanks Guys for all these suggs....